Sunday, January 1, 2012

{Looking Forward, Looking Back}

happy new year
As I sit here reflecting on the last year, 2011 was certainly trying. While I had a lot of things occur that tested my faith, patience, and health, in the end, 2011 taught me that optimism and positivity do reign supreme. I believe that, in everything, every day is a chance to reach for something greater and that every moment holds opportunities available to enrich our lives. If life is truly 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it, we essentially have two choices when we wake each morning: we can either be someone who lets difficulty defeat us or be someone who recognizes that it is our attitude, or our passion, that will take us to the next level. I'm blessed to have gone through all I have this year as it has definitely made me stronger and ready to face all the delicious things that are in store for me in 2012. So in preparation - I'm keeping my goals this year pretty simple - take care of my health, my finances, and my spirituality, as I believe everything else will fall into place. So here it goes:

1. Continue on my journey of a healthy life and body by:
- continuing my success with Weight Watchers (tracking what I eat & drinking lots of water)
- continuing my fitness training with my trainer and by running more
- minimizing salt and sugar intake
- eating mainly whole, local, and organic foods 

2. Travel more.  
I didn't go on a big trip in 2011 as I was still recovering from my 2010 trip to Italy. This year I would like to go on a cruise, and take several weekend trips to NYC and the beach.

3. Spend less. Save more.
While you know I love to shop - this year I'm going to try and be more mindful and less impulsive. The goal is quality over quantity - and a bigger bank account.

4. Exfoliate anything and anyone that isn’t serving a positive purpose in my life.
As I spent several hours in the car over the holidays, I listened to many of Oprah's Life classes. The class that resonated with me the most was the one on Putting Out Positive Energy. I learned that we are all responsible for our own causes and the energy we put into the world. When you do a loving thing, when you put out positive energy, you feel happy. This is how human beings are wired. So the goal is not to put out positive energy in order to get some positive energy back. The goal is to put out positive energy and feel positive about your life. That's where the work is.

5. Push myself past the scary bits more often and not let comfort and complacency hold me back from really exciting places on the horizon. 
Another Life class of Oprah's that spoke to me was the one on Stepping Out of the Box. It talked about what keeps you from leaving your comfort zone and how a sense of adventure is really about waking up every day not with a sense of dread but with a sense of possibility. Most of us are extremely fearful about life, we're constantly trying to protect and defend ourselves. This year the goal is to build up my sense of self-reliance and enjoy the possibilities.

I feel so much gratitude for being able to blog. Thank you so much for the support this year and here's to a happy 2012!
{Pinatas | Glitter Party Horns}
new year jessica

Thursday, December 29, 2011

{Catching Up}

Morning Peeps! How was your Christmas? Did Santa bring you everything you asked for? I must admit that Santa was extremely generous to me this year and among the several amazing gifts that I received, I got this weekender bag that I've been eying for quite some time now - I'm obsessed with it. In addition to mounds of gifts under our tree, I got to spend some real quality time with my family - I cherish the time that I get to spend with them as we only get to see each other a few times a year. I've mentioned several times before how me and my sister's compete against each other to see who can create the best Christmas wrapping - so click here to see our finished products. My sister Tara won this year with her leopard print paper, gold glitter ribbon, and huge red bows. Do you agree? So now it's on, time for me to brainstorm so I can take back the title!

So now that Christmas is over - New Year's is right around the corner. Raise your hand if you think New Year's Eve is one of the most overrated holidays of the year? Don't get me wrong, I've always wanted to get super dressed up and go to a New Year's Eve ball to dance the night away until the clock strikes twelve and I receive a kiss to remember - but since at this time it's only a dream, I thought I would put together a perfect recipe for spending New Year's Eve at home:

recipe for new years eve at home
{tinsel drink stirrers, sparklers, Burberry pj's}
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Thursday, December 22, 2011

{On The Road Again}

Hoooray! In a short while – me, my sister, and my puppy will be piling in the car and heading up north to Ohio for Christmas. I have to be honest – with the weather here in NC (60/70s) it really hasn’t felt like Christmas. But I know the moment we step foot in our parents house with everything fully decorated, trees up, presents surrounding the bottom, cookies in the cupboard, and snow on the ground (fingers crossed) – my Christmas cheer will quickly turn around. I’m so looking forward to just getting there already. While I’m away – my posting will be sporadic – so while I promise not to abandon you, I plan to spend every second I can with my family as the last time we were all together was last Christmas.
snow
For those of you who are also traveling this holiday season – please be safe, k?
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Wednesday, December 21, 2011

{Move On}

While quickly looking on Pinterest this morning, my good friend Gab of Vive ut Vivas posted this pic below and I thought it was perfect due to my last couple days. It all started with a Christmas lunch here with my peeps at work, then late night pizza at the office trying to get a final project out the door, and then let's not even talk about what's in store with going home for the holidays tomorrow. This morning a wave of guilt came over me as I've done so well so far, and I certainly don't want to start backsliding into my old habits - but as quickly as the negative thoughts surfaced, a small voice said {via the pic below}.....move on!
move on
Enjoy your day peeps - in just a few hours my Christmas vacation begins {insert happy dance here!!!!!!!!!!}.
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Tuesday, December 20, 2011

{Something To Look Forward To}

Today is going to be another hectic day, night, and early morning at work - and while I'm not excited about it at all, it just means that I'm a little bit closer to stepping away from my life here in Raleigh and traveling up to Ohio. My sister is flying down here from NYC tomorrow evening, we're going to grab some burgers and fries at Chuck's, and then we're gonna have slumber party before we head on the road Thursday morning. So while today is not going to be fun, I have something fantastic to look forward to - to get me through it.
Heels in the snow
Don't you just love this pic - it's all about teamwork and love right? LOVE IS.. when he helps you out, with a smile on his face, even though you should have known better..adorable. {via}
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